[PDF/EBOOK] Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life author Emily Nagoski

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  • Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life
  • Emily Nagoski
  • English
  • 03 September 2019
  • 9781476762098

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summary ↠ E-book, or Kindle E-pub ´ Emily Nagoski Emily Nagoski ´ 9 download summary Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life Rousal desire and orgasm Cutting edge research across multiple disciplines tells us that the most important factor for women in creating and sustaining a fulfilling sex life is not what you do in bed or how you do it but how you feel about it Which means that stress mood trust and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it Once you understand these factors and how to influence them you can create for yourself better sex and profound pleasure than you ever thought possibleAnd Emily Nagoski can prove it. For some women I have no doubt this would be a life changing book I definitely learned some cool stuff things I am pissed that I did not know because patriarchy But I guess I m lucky enough that I don t really need the self help of this book to help with my sex life and this aspect is really the meat of the book Also Nagoski acknowledges that the book is for and about cisgender women so that omission didn t bother me there isn t enough science about trans women or enby people but I did still feel like it was suited for straight women in long term monogamous relationships which Nagoski doesn t give a disclaimer for like she does the focus on cis women The examples of lesbians didn t really feel like they were specific to those experiences and bi women don t come up at all Single and poly women wouldn t get a lot out of this that would speak specifically to those experiences either I don t think Plus the metaphors used to explain absolutely everything got to me after a while The Freeze Frame Revolution peripheral factors in a woman’s sexual wellbeing; they are central to it Once you understand these factors and how to influence them you can create for yourself better sex and The New York Review and Atheneum Magazine Vol 2 profound His Christmas Cowgirl Wildflower Ranch #6 possibleAnd Emily Nagoski can The Doctors Dating Bargain prove it. For some women I have no doubt this would be a life changing book I definitely learned some cool stuff things I am The Collection Seasonal Products pissed that I did not know because Whispers of Feathers patriarchy But I guess I m lucky enough that I don t really need the self help of this book to help with my sex life and this aspect is really the meat of the book Also Nagoski acknowledges that the book is for and about cisgender women so that omission didn t bother me there isn t enough science about trans women or enby Entrepreneurial Vernacular Developers' Subdivisions in the 1920s Creating the North American Landscape poly women wouldn t get a lot out of this that would speak specifically to those experiences either I don t think Plus the metaphors used to explain absolutely everything got to me after a while

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summary ↠ E-book, or Kindle E-pub ´ Emily Nagoski Emily Nagoski ´ 9 download summary Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life Er thought possible and Come as You Are explains it allThe first lesson in this essential transformative book by Dr Emily Nagoski is that every woman has her own uniue sexuality like a fingerprint and that women vary than men in our anatomy our sexual response mechanisms and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world So we never need to judge ourselves based on others’ experiences Because women vary and that’s normalSecond lesson sex happens in a context And all the complications of everyday life influence the context surrounding a woman’s a. The information in this book is solid gold A copy should be put in the hands of every person ideally before they ve had sexual contact with another person But BUT The metaphors Dear Lord the metaphors We have sexuality as an accelerator and brakes sexuality as an overgrown garden sexuality as a hot water heater complex feelings as a sleeping hedgehog sexual interest as a customers seeking a diner sexual expectations as a touchy monitor tapping her fingernails our brains as a flock of birds and SO MANY OTHERS I CAN T EVEN REMEMBER I understand and applaud what Nagoski is doing in terms of wanting to convey big complicated cognitive functions in relatable prose But it touches a nerve for me when writers anthropomorphize female sexuality I find it infantilizing I m a big girl just tell me what my brain is doing I can read about chemicals and neurons and whatnot I don t need to imagine my brain as a lion and my pelvis as a caveman or whatever other nonsense So 5 stars for the content 4 stars for the chatty conversational writing style which did not annoy me but will probably polarize some readers and 1 star for the overworked metaphors The Freeze Frame Revolution put in the hands of every The New York Review and Atheneum Magazine Vol 2 person ideally before they ve had sexual contact with another His Christmas Cowgirl Wildflower Ranch #6 prose But it touches a nerve for me when writers anthropomorphize female sexuality I find it infantilizing I m a big girl just tell me what my brain is doing I can read about chemicals and neurons and whatnot I don t need to imagine my brain as a lion and my The Doctors Dating Bargain pelvis as a caveman or whatever other nonsense So 5 stars for the content 4 stars for the chatty conversational writing style which did not annoy me but will The Collection Seasonal Products probably Whispers of Feathers polarize some readers and 1 star for the overworked metaphors

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summary ↠ E-book, or Kindle E-pub ´ Emily Nagoski Emily Nagoski ´ 9 download summary Come as You Are The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works based on groundbreaking research and brain science that will radically transform your sex life into one filled with confidence and joyResearchers have spent the last decade trying to develop a “pink pill” for women to function like Viagra does for men So where is it Well for reasons this book makes crystal clear that pill will never exist but as a result of the research that’s gone into it scientists in the last few years have learned about how women’s sexuality works than we ev. It s hard not to love a book with a pseudo vagina on the front it s even harder not to love that same book for smashing all the preconceived ideas we have about female and by comparison male sexuality Like for example did you know that the hymen as an indication of virginity is entirely a social construction and there is no scientific evidence backing it Using actual real science Dr Emily Nagoski a speak the truth and only the truth sex educatorprofessor breaks down all the things we think we know about sex and desire and drive and in the process makes you feel like not are you normal but we re ALL normal As she says over and over and over We re all made up of the same basic parts just organized differently In other words there is no normal This is a game changer of a human sexuality book not just for women who have always been told that men s sexuality is the default HINT it s not but for men who love women and don t understand why the things that work for them don t work for women Justjust go buy this Buy this and read it and try not to be that weird person pushing a sex book on every single lady person you know Because these are all lessons we need to learn Better for us better for everyone Rachel Manwillfrom The Best Books We Read in April